On the drive home after our lunch my brain was alive with the characteristics of my ideal woman.
When I got home I wrote the list that was buzzing around in my head.
Then I remembered the second part of the formula – I have to become the man to attract this ideal woman and have this fun, passionate, and deeply loving relationship that I had just outlined.
I was inspired, driven, compelled to become the man that could and would attract such an amazing woman - and I went to work on redefining myself.
I knew the big shift would come from defining who I needed to be, transforming my body, shifting my beliefs and mindset – I had to become the most powerful version of myself.
So I set about to do exactly that - I worked consistently every day, to become the best version of myself.
Then I met her…
I had what I call a “holy fuck” moment.
Not only was she the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen but her energy was captivating in a way I’d never felt before.
I became even more alive!
But I couldn’t ask her out... yet.
I needed to clean up a few more things before I could step into a fun, passionate, and deeply loving relationship.
So I cleared up a couple of other things and then the day came. We had been in communication, and I had just returned from a trip to Europe, when she messaged me to ask me a question. I knew this was my chance... so I asked her if we could get together.
She said YES!
At this point I knew I wanted to be in a relationship, but there was still one problem. I had thrown myself deeper into work while being single, working from morning until night and worked most of the weekend too – I had to make a shift in my business to create space for this relationship.
In the next few days, before our first date, I spoke to another good friend of mine, Melanie Benson, who teaches entrepreneurs how to optimize their time and grow their businesses.
Within a week I had made the shift in my business to create the space for the life-changing journey I was about to embark on.
Was it easy? No... I went to work and pushed up to the edge in so many areas of my life. I met my own demons -- we all harbor them as men, sometimes we just don’t know they are there.
By now I had completely transformed my body, completely transformed my energy, completely transformed my beliefs and mindset, and now I completely transformed my time and the money I was making.